Encouraging Messages My Husband Needs and Wants to Hear

I choose to breathe life into my marriage by leaving encouraging messages for my husband on a daily basis!  

Hopefully you have been on the receiving end of a powerful, encouraging word. Can you remember how it made you feel inside? Words carry life giving power that can transform the way someone views their day, their circumstances or even the value of their life and contributions to this world. Your words can make a tremendous difference! Encouraging messages and empowering affirmations are free to give and can be a treasured gift to someone that you love.

Don’t let your man fool you…even the roughest, toughest, manliest man needs to hear that he is loved, adored, respected and appreciated by his wife and family. You may think he knows your heart already and that you don’t need to tell him on a daily basis or even routinely for that matter, but guess what?

You absolutely do!

Never assume that he knows the beautiful truths that you believe about him that live in the deepest caverns of your soul. What you believe about your husband, how you feel about him, how he makes you feel, what you respect about him and what he means to your family are all things your husband needs to hear from your lips each and every day. Never keep these things hidden from him.

Shout them from the rooftops and share often!

Why Is Leaving Encouraging Messages For My Husband So Important?

The world is a noisy place to live. There are so many people and things competing for our time, attention and our affections. People are inundating us with their opinions and trying to sway us to believe, act and respond in favor of their “truth.” I never want to make assumptions in my marriage especially concerning my feelings for my man! I never want him to doubt his place in my life or his position in my heart! I want him to walk out of our home each morning feeling confident, loved, encouraged and inspired!

Satan hates marriage! He would love nothing more than to plant doubt in your relationship while he stands back and watches it grow and multiply. Doing whatever you can to safeguard your marriage against Satan and his merciless attacks is well worth the investment over time.

Building Your Husband Up Does Not Have to be Complicated

Intentional communication has always been a priority in our marriage whether it be for problem solving, daily logistics or encouragement. If we don’t make time to share what is on our mind or in our heart, we are missing out on a valuable opportunity to strengthen our marriage and our intimate bond with our husbands. Leaving encouraging messages for my husband takes only seconds each day but it pays off dividends in the overall health of our marriage.

We use a lot of words each day (especially us girls!) Can I get an AMEN? Each time we share words with the world and those that we love, we have a choice to build up or tear down. We can use our tongues to speak life or we can use them to nag, criticize and manipulate.

What will you choose to do?

When you speak life and truth from your heart, you can never say the wrong thing! Encouraging messages for my husband do not have to be complicated, fancy or lengthy. My words are meant to empower him, increase his confidence, cheer him up, comfort him, help him persevere and remind him of his worth in Jesus Christ and his value to me and our family.

Never Take Your Husband or Time for Granted

Families today are busier and more fragmented than ever before. We are running around from commitment to commitment and activity to activity. Some days, we are lucky to even brush shoulders with our spouses much less find time to share encouraging messages with one another. We tend to wear our busyness like a badge of honor but unfortunately, if we aren’t careful, all this busyness can become a barrier to heart to heart communication and connection with our spouses! Don’t let distraction and busyness become excuses for not taking the time to build up your spouse!

Time is a precious gift and one that is limited. Each moment can be made meaningful or it can be a missed opportunity. Take advantage of the time you are given, because life can certainly change in an instant.

I have personally experienced life and death circumstances with both my husband and my mom and I have learned never to take a loved one for granted because one day, they will be gone.

By intentionally creating moments of connection now, you can prevent regret in the future for things left unsaid.

Besides knowing what encouraging messages to share, we need to think about how to share them! I would encourage you to get creative but don’t over complicate it! You want to actually do it and do it consistently. The goal is to find ways to incorporate these messages into your daily routines! It isn’t something that you try for a week and decide to check off your list!

My prayer is that this practice will become a regularly reciprocated rhythm of your partnership with your spouse!

Encouraging Messages For My Husband and Yours

You are my sunshine on a cloudy day.

Your smile brightens my day!

Thank you for being you.

Thank you for working so hard for our family.

You are so strong!

You make me so proud.

I am so blessed to be your wife.

The kids are so blessed to call you Dad.

Thank you for loving me, for me.

Thank you for being our provider.

Thank you for being our protector and making us feel so safe.

There is no one else in the world I would rather be with than you.

You are wildly loved by the Lord and by us!

God created you to do great things!

I believe in you!

I know you can do anything you put your mind to!

I appreciate you in every way!

I’m yours always and forever.

You are a faithful man of God.

You are my forever partner in love & life.

You are the best husband and an answered prayer.

Thank you for being the keeper of my secrets.

Thank you for guarding my heart with such love, gentleness and kindness.

I am your biggest fan!

There is no one in the world like you!

No matter what comes our way, we will weather it together.

We are better together, with God at the helm of our life and our love.

I am inspired by you in every way.

You are a man of integrity.

I love how you speak truth & life.

I value your ideas and opinions.

My favorite thing about you is (fill in the blank)

Being with you is my favorite place to be.

Your passion is contagious!

Your enthusiasm is infectious!

I never want to know a day without your love.

You have a beautiful servant heart.

No one makes me laugh the way that you do.

You set my heart on fire.

I know you can do anything you put your mind to.

You are an answered prayer!

I thank God for giving me you.

I’m praying for you.

You give the best hugs and kisses.

I will always stand by your side.

You make me want to be a better person.

You have all my respect.

I choose you and will continue to choose you each and every day.

I appreciate you, for who you are, not just what you do.

I appreciate everything you do for me and our family.

Different Ways To Deliver Encouraging Messages

Consider speaking life and encouragement face to face each morning and before you close your eyes at night.

Send an affirming text message throughout the day and include an uplifting scripture verse.

If your husband is in touch with technology, consider sending him an email at work to brighten his day.

How about putting a love note in his lunchbox?

Leave him words of encouragement or inspirational scripture on the bathroom mirror to start his day off on the right foot!

Put a post-it note on his steering wheel with an uplifting message to start his day!

Put a sticky note on his favorite morning coffee mug.

Sneak a sweet card on his pillow before bedtime.

Put a heart shaped note on his toothbrush.

Slip a love note into his coat or shirt pocket.

Leave him a note in His bible near a special verse about love and marriage.

Consider starting a shared notebook where you can leave encouragement for one another daily!

Think about giving his car a heart attack by putting heart shaped loved notes all over his vehicle!

There are so many more AMAZING WAYS to encourage and uplift your spouse! I would love to hear what ideas you have!

Leaving encouraging messages for my husband is something I take very seriously and I have seen the fruits as a result of the effort over the last fourteen years of marriage. This is one thing that takes so little time to do but is so powerful and has tremendous impact on my husband’s mind, body and spirit. By encouraging him, I myself reap the benefits of encouragement. By intentionally choosing to focus on the good, I can reinforce my love and feelings for him in his heart and in mine.